Monday, November 10, 2008

My 26th-reflections

My 26th bday reflections.

I turn 26 this year, and well.. its gonna be my last birthday as a Single... cos by next year.. I will be Mrs Leong already.. and no longer Ms Ng..

Anywayz... the day went by pretty simply, went church, went to eat lunch, went home, write wedding cards, slept awhile, went for late dinner at 9pm, came home.. the days leading up to the Bday was rather normal too.. busy preparing for wedding preps.. and i kinda forgot that it was November already..and haha believe it or not.. i kinda din realised my birthday was coming up...

Like i mentioned in my previous post... Actually as i grow older... i start to 'dislike' (wonders if this is the right word to use) my own birthday.. reason being: 1) I'm 1 year older, 2) Gone are the days when we are all childlike and jump at little presents, gone are the days when people remember your birthday and treat you like you're a Princess on that day... gone are the surprises and all...no more pressies, no more surprises, no one remembers even... (sad reality of life, but that's LIFE)..

Birthdays as adults are BORING!!! not fun and nothing interesting and nothing good to look forward to at all...I remember when i was younger, birthdays used to be sweet... as a child, parents will buy cake and sing you the usual birthday songs... some would have the honor of having Mee Sua with eggs... as you grow older abit.. you;ll have birthday parties in school , some will have the chance to hold a Ronald Mcdonald's party... (not that i had one, but i enjoyed my birthdays when i was younger, though spent simply with family..but it was great)

And you grow older abit..and u start inviting friends for a chalet..grow older abit more.. it escalates to having Sabo parties..... and when You get older abit.. its just meet up, dinner and gathering.. and older abit more... well i dunno.. probably dinner meet ups???? See the point? it gets boring as you grow older...

Growing up sucks.. and it sucks to know that as people grow up.. other things in life become more important and people just forget little things in life that really matter... People might say..Birthday is just like any other day... but NO.. its not really any other day.. cos that's the only day that you grow exactly 1 year older... eg: I can only be 26th Once.. not twice..

Oh wellz.. think my birthady reflections for this year sounds quite depressing..no "hall of fame of people who wished etc... cos wasnt in the mood for the whole birthday thingy this year" sorry folks.. but just wanted all to realised that growing older does not means getting boring or ignoring the simple things in life that makes people happy.. (Telling myself that too)

Somethings need to be remembered.. somethings need to take precedence over other things.. something in life...once its gone can never be replaced...

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